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vampiregirl2345:

Vegans of tumblr, listen up. Harvesting agave in the quantities required so you dont have to eat honey is killing mexican long-nosed bats. They feed off the nectar and pollinate the plants. They need the agave. You want to help the environment? Go back to honey. Your liver and thyroid will thank you, as well. Agave is 90% fructose, which can cause a host of issues. Bye.

Beekeeper here! Just wanted to say that the fact that vegans won’t eat honey is very silly. Harvesting honey does not hurt bees. The invention of modern moveable-frame hives means we can remove a selected frame, extract the honey and return it without killing a single bee.

If we destroyed the colony to harvest honey there would be no bees for next year, and beekeepers are incredibly careful to keep their bees healthy and thriving. We take *excess* honey that they don’t need, and it stops the hive from becoming honey-bound, meaning that there’s so much honey the Queen has nowhere to lay eggs. And if the winter is harsher than expected and the remaining honey store runs low, we feed the bees plenty to make sure they survive. We also make sure that pests are controlled, bees are treated for disease, and the hive is weatherproof and in good repair, all things that wild bees struggle with.

Keeping bees in properly managed hives where they don’t starve or die from preventable disease is much better for them than being left to fend for themselves, and they’re far too important to be left alone.

All the fruits and vegetables that vegans *do* eat couldn’t exist without bees, and the hives which pollinate those crops also produce excess honey which the beekeepers can sell to help keep themselves and their hives going.

TLDR: BUY THE HONEY, HELP THE BEES.

onlinecounsellingcollege:

“Not everyone likes me but not everyone matters.”

— ILIKETOQUOTE.COM

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When the honeymoon stage ends what happens

justcharise:

artistluv:

…………

You’re more honest with each other.

Bodily functions are something to laugh about.
Sweatpants and tee shirts are a regular thing.
They know what you look like without all the makeup.
Being “laid up and watching Netflix” is the only thing you’re looking forward to after work.
You don’t go on fancy dates as often but you trade that for quality time.
You find yourself being more vulnerable and you open up more.
They become your best friend.
You will able to talk about anything.
You won’t be worried about impressing their parents, you’re just gonna love them anyway regardless of how their parents may feel.
You will have inside jokes that no one else will get.
Sex is not as often but, twice as passionate.
Little fights will happen, but you’ll learn not to sweat the small stuff.
You’ll learn what compromise really is about.
You’ll dream about the future together. Grow together.
Be on each other’s team.
See their ugly crying face, and be the one to wipe the tears away & do something stupid to make them life.
things are amazing after the honeymoon stage. However, it’s a time about giving up your walls and open up some doors you have locked a long time ago.

That’s why some people don’t make it past this point, because they don’t know what unconditional self-love means.
Remain open and optimistic, love will never fail you.

MIDHEAVEN SIGNS: CAREERS AND JOBS TO CONSIDER

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eccentricastrology:

ARIES MIDHEAVEN

  • coach provide training direction, encouragement, motivation and nutritional advice to prepare athletes for games, competitive events or tours
  • pilot - start engines, operate controls and maneuver airplanes to transport passengers, mail or freight, adhering to flight plans, regulations and procedures
  • medical service manager - conduct and administer fiscal operations, including accounting, planning budgets, authorizing expenditures, establishing rates for services and coordinating financial reporting
  • CEO - direct, plan or implement policies, objectives or activities of organizations/businesses to ensure continuing operations, to maximize returns on investments or to increase productivity
  • education administrator - observe teaching methods and examine learning materials to evaluate and standardize curricula and teaching techniques, and to determine areas where improvement is needed
  • industrial production manager - review processing schedules or production orders to make decisions concerning inventory requirements, staffing requirements, work procedures or duty assignments, considering budgetary limitations and time constraints
  • choreographer - design dances for individual dancers, dance companies, musical theatre, opera, fashion shows, film, television productions and special events, and for dancers ranging from beginners to professionals
  • judgeinterpret the law, assess the evidence presented and control how hearings and trials unfold in the courtrooms
  • music director - direct groups at rehearsals and live or recorded performances to achieve desired effects such as tonal and harmonic balance dynamics, rhythm and tempo
  • politiciancreate or propose laws that further the general interests of the public
  • tour guide - escort individuals or groups on cruises, sightseeing tours or through places of interest such as industrial establishments, public buildings and art galleries

TAURUS MIDHEAVEN

  • fashion designer - sketch rough and detailed drawings of apparel or accessories, and write specifications such as color schemes, construction, material types and accessory requirements
  • television/film producer - coordinate the activities of writers, directors, managers and other personnel throughout the production process
  • medical transcriptionist - transcribe dictation for a variety of medical reports, such as patient histories, physical examinations, emergency room visits, operations, chart reviews, consultation or discharge summaries
  • landscape artistcreate paintings or other artistic representations of an outdoor environment
  • chef - direct and may participate in the preparation, seasoning and cooking of salads, soups, fish, meats, vegetables, desserts or other foods
  • librarian - review and evaluate materials, using book reviews, catalogs, faculty recommendations, and current holdings to select and order print, audio-visual and electronic resources
  • photo stylistfind the props, lighting and colors to create just the right feeling for the editorial spread being done
  • elementary school teacher - instruct students individually and in groups, using various teaching methods such as lectures, discussions and demonstrations
  • software engineer - develop testing programs that address areas such as database impacts, software scenarios, regression testing, negative testing, error/bug retests or usability
  • management consultanthelp organizations improve their performance, operating primarily through the analysis of existing organizational problems and the development of plans for improvement
  • public relations specialist - engage in promoting or creating an intended public image for individuals, groups or organizations

GEMINI MIDHEAVEN

  • broadcast journalistresearch, investigate and present news and current affairs content for television, radio and the internet
  • anthropologist - plan and direct research to characterize and compare the economic, demographic, health care, social, political, linguistic and religious institutions of distinct cultural groups, communities and organizations
  • lawyer - study constitution, statutes, decisions, regulations and ordinances of quasi-judicial bodies to determine ramifications for cases
  • marketing manager - identify, develop or evaluate marketing strategy, based on knowledge of establishment objectives, market characteristics, cost and markup factors
  • energy broker - forecast energy supply and demand to minimize costs, and maximize availability
  • interviewercompile, record and code results or data from interview/survey, using computer or specified form
  • loan officer - analyze applicants’ financial status, credit and property evaluations to determine feasibility of granting loans
  • authorwrite original content for publication in novels, nonfiction books or textbooks, among other types of books
  • event planner - meet with sponsors and organizing committees to plan scope and format of events, to establish and monitor budgets or to review administrative procedures and event progress
  • desktop publisher - position text and art elements from a variety of databases in a visually appealing way to design print or web pages, using knowledge of type styles, size and layout patterns
  • real estate agent - promote sales of properties through advertisements, open houses and participation in multiple listing services

CANCER MIDHEAVEN

  • gardenerresponsible for growing and cultivating all types of plants like flowers, trees, shrubs and lawns in a variety of green spaces
  • nanny - model appropriate social behaviors and encourage concern for others to cultivate development of interpersonal relationships and communication skills
  • emergency room nursetreat patients in emergency situations where they’re experiencing trauma or injury
  • counselorgive guidance on personal, social or psychological problems
  • yoga instructorteach yoga, the low-impact exercise that uses controlled postures and breathing techniques to improve flexibility/strength
  • corrections social workerprevent recidivism by addressing the psycho-social issues, providing education and offering social service recommendations to successfully reintegrate into the community upon release
  • veterinarian - treat sick or injured animals by prescribing medication, setting bones, dressing wounds or performing surgery
  • ecologistconduct surveys to identify, record and monitor species and their habitats
  • photographer - determine desired images and picture composition, selecting and adjusting subjects, equipment and lighting to achieve desired effects
  • archivist - appraise, edit and direct safekeeping of permanent records and historically valuable documents
  • proofreader - mark copy to indicate and correct errors in type, arrangement, grammar, punctuation or spelling, using standard printers’ marks

LEO MIDHEAVEN

  • entrepreneurexercise initiative by organizing a venture to take benefit of an opportunity and, as the decision maker, decides what, how and how much of a good/service will be produced
  • actor - perform humorous and serious interpretations of emotions, actions and situations, using body movements, facial expressions and gestures
  • mediatorhelp people in conflict settle their disputes without going to court
  • sales representative - contact regular and prospective customers to demonstrate products, explain product features and solicit orders
  • project managerhave the responsibility of the planning, procurement and execution of a project, in any domain of engineering
  • athlete - exercise/practice under the direction of athletic trainers or professional coaches to develop skills, improve physical condition or prepare for competitions
  • hairstylist - cut, trim and shape hair or hairpieces, based on customers’ instructions, hair type and facial features, using clippers, scissors, trimmers and razors
  • police officer - provide for public safety by maintaining order, responding to emergencies, protecting people and property, enforcing motor vehicle and criminal laws, and promoting good community relations
  • musician - practice musical instrument performances, individually or in rehearsal with other musicians, to master individual pieces of music and to maintain and improve skills
  • building contractorresponsible for building, renovating or remodeling a building, and they oversee other contractors working on the job
  • comedianrecite a grouping of humorous stories, jokes, one-liners or routines in front of an audience, intended to evoke laughter

VIRGO MIDHEAVEN

  • business analystanalyze an organization or business domain (real or hypothetical) and documents its business or processes/systems, assessing the business model or its integration with technology
  • meteorologist - interpret data, reports, maps, photographs or charts to predict long- or short-range weather conditions, using computer models and knowledge of climate theory, physics and mathematics
  • forensic accountantanalyze, interpret, summarize and present complex financial and business related issues in a manner which is both understandable and properly supported
  • aerospace engineer - perform engineering duties in designing, constructing/testing aircraft, missiles and spacecraft
  • detectiveinterview potential suspects, examine records and apprehend criminals
  • credit controllercoordinate the debts of existing creditors and decide whether to allow credit to a debtor – ultimately managing all money borrowed or owed to your business 
  • purchase ledger clerkhelp firms evaluate vendor shipment levels, operating inventory turnovers, working capital needs and customer management processes
  • statistician - adapt statistical methods to solve specific problems in many fields, such as economics, biology and engineering
  • playwright - write plays
  • astronomer - study celestial phenomena, using a variety of ground-based, space-borne telescopes and scientific instruments
  • criminologistanalyze data to determine why a crime was committed, and find ways to predict, deter and prevent further criminal behavior

LIBRA MIDHEAVEN

  • animatorcreate multiple images, known as frames, which give an illusion of movement when displayed in rapid sequence
  • video game designer - create core game features including storylines, role-play mechanics and character biographies for a new video game or game franchise
  • naval architectdesign, build and maintain ships from aircraft carriers to submarines, from sailboats to tankers
  • interior designer - subcontract fabrication, installation and arrangement of carpeting, fixtures, accessories, draperies, paint and wall coverings, art work, furniture, and related items
  • comic book artistillustrate comic books by drawing characters and scenes  
  • sound effects editorresponsible for selecting and assembling sound recordings in preparation for the final sound mixing or mastering of a television program, motion picture, video game, or any production involving recorded/synthetic sound
  • web developer - design, build or maintain websites, using authoring or scripting languages, content creation tools, management tools and digital media
  • model - work closely with photographers, fashion coordinators, directors, producers, stylists, make-up artists, other models and clients to produce the desired looks, and to finish photo shoots on schedule
  • dancer - perform classical, modern or acrobatic dances in productions, expressing stories, rhythm and sound with their bodies
  • talent agentfind jobs for actors, authors, film directors, musicians, models, film producers, professional athletes, writers, screenwriters, broadcast journalists and other people in various entertainment or broadcast businesses  
  • film directorresponsible for creatively translating the film’s written script into actual images and sounds on the screen

SCORPIO MIDHEAVEN

  • crime science technicianhelp investigate crimes by collecting and analyzing physical evidence
  • archaeologist - write, present/publish reports that record site history, methodology and artifact analysis results, along with recommendations for conserving and interpreting findings
  • geographer - create and modify maps, graphs or diagrams, using geographical information software and related equipment, and principles of cartography such as coordinate systems, longitude, latitude, elevation, topography and map scales
  • legal assistant - investigate facts and law of cases, and search pertinent sources, such as public records, to determine causes of action and to prepare cases
  • bookkeeper - perform any combination of routine calculating, posting and verifying duties to obtain primary financial data for use in maintaining accounting records
  • court reporter - record verbatim proceedings of courts, legislative assemblies, committee meetings and other proceedings, using computerized recording equipment, electronic stenograph machines or stenomasks
  • electrician - test electrical systems or continuity of circuits in electrical wiring, equipment/fixtures, using testing devices, such as ohmmeters, voltmeters or oscilloscopes, to ensure compatibility and safety of system
  • translator - translate messages simultaneously or consecutively into specified languages, orally or by using hand signs, maintaining message content, context and style as much as possible
  • computer programmer - conduct trial runs of programs and software applications to be sure they will produce the desired information and that the instructions are correct
  • pharmacist - dispense drugs prescribed by physicians/other health practitioners, and provide information to patients about medications and their use
  • geneticist - research and study the inheritance of traits at the molecular, organism or population level

SAGITTARIUS MIDHEAVEN

  • botaniststudy the effects of pollution on plants and work toward environmental protection, and identify new plant species and evaluate their parts/uses
  • skydiving instructorhelp beginning jumpers learn the safety procedures and processes needed to take their first jump
  • lifeguard - examine injured persons and administer first aid or cardiopulmonary resuscitation, if necessary, using training and medical supplies/equipment
  • park ranger - provide visitor services, such as explaining regulations, answering visitor requests, needs and complaints, and providing information about the park as well as surrounding areas
  • forester - plan and supervise forestry projects, such as determining the type, number and placement of trees to be planted, managing tree nurseries, thinning forest and monitoring growth of new seedlings
  • paramedic - assess injuries, administer emergency medical care and extricate trapped individuals
  • organic farmerproduce fruits, vegetables, grains or livestock without the use of pesticides, herbicides or chemical fertilizers
  • travel writerproduce articles for travel magazines, hotel/spa periodicals and other printed publications
  • college professor - teach college students
  • singer - interpret or modify music, applying knowledge of harmony, melody, rhythm and voice production to individualize presentations and maintain audience interest
  • cruise directorresponsible for all activities and entertainment on a ship, from musicians and lecturers to deck parties and evening shows

CAPRICORN MIDHEAVEN

  • business development executiveassist their companies acquire new customers and sell additional products or services to existing ones
  • content marketercreate and distribute valuable, relevant and consistent content to attract and retain a clearly-defined audience — and, ultimately, drive profitable customer action
  • air traffic controllermanage the flow of aircraft into and out of the airport airspace, guide pilots during takeoff and landing, and monitor aircraft as they travel through the skies
  • hearing aid practitioner - evaluate hearing ability
  • polysomnographic technologistwork with people who have diagnosed or suspected sleep disorders
  • zoologist - study animals in their natural habitats, assess effects of environment and industry on animals, interpret findings and recommend alternative operating conditions for industry
  • mathematician - develop computational methods for solving problems that occur in areas of science and engineering, or that come from applications in business/industry
  • economist - compile, analyze and report data to explain economic phenomena and forecast market trends, applying mathematical models and statistical techniques
  • social media manageradminister the company’s social media marketing and advertising
  • art therapist - talk with clients during art or other therapy sessions to build rapport, acknowledge their progress, or reflect upon their reactions to the artistic process
  • biochemist - study physical principles of living cells/organisms and their electrical or mechanical energy, applying methods and knowledge of mathematics, physics, chemistry or biology

AQUARIUS MIDHEAVEN

  • neurosurgeonspecialize in the diagnosis and surgical treatment of disorders of the central and peripheral nervous system including congenital anomalies, trauma, tumors, vascular disorders, infections of the brain or spine, stroke or degenerative diseases of the spine
  • historian - gather historical data from sources such as archives, court records, diaries, news files and photographs, as well as collect data sources such as books, pamphlets and periodicals
  • paleontologiststudy fossils that range from tiny bacteria to giant dinosaurs
  • firefighter - move toward the source of a fire, using knowledge of types of fires, construction design, building materials and physical layout of properties
  • arbitratordraw on knowledge of relevant laws, precedents and policies to thoughtfully weigh the merits of each side’s perspective and then determine liability
  • community organizerfocus on fixing broken social systems, bringing about meaningful changes to peoples’ lives and empowering vulnerable or oppressed populations
  • orhodontist - study diagnostic records, such as medical or dental histories, plaster models of the teeth, photos of a patient’s face and teeth, and x-rays to develop patient treatment plans
  • content strategistresponsible for strategic elements of online content
  • linguistimplement scientific methodologies to the study of languages, making observations, developing and analyzing hypotheses and constructing prototypes/theories
  • clinical psychologist - interact with clients to assist them in gaining insight, defining goals and planning action to achieve effective personal, social, educational and vocational development and adjustment
  • food scientist - inspect food processing areas to ensure compliance with government regulations and standards for sanitation, safety, quality and waste management standards

PISCES MIDHEAVEN

  • speech pathologist - assess and treat persons with speech, language, voice and fluency disorders
  • house sittertemporarily live in a residence that is not theirs to deter intruders and keep the household in shape while the regular occupant is away
  • family practitionerprovide comprehensive care to patients of all ages with all sorts of conditions  
  • music teacherteach people how to play an instrument, or give singing and voice lessons
  • animal trainer - conduct training programs to develop or maintain desired animal behaviors for competition, entertainment, obedience, security, riding, or related purposes
  • marine biologiststudy plant and animal life in saltwater environments
  • cinematographer - in charge of the camera and lighting departments while shooting a film
  • soil and plant scientist - conduct experiments to develop new or improved varieties of field crops, focusing on characteristics such as yield, quality, disease resistance, nutritional value or adaptation to specific soils/climates
  • intelligence analystpiece together information from a variety of sources in order to assess threats and prevent attacks from interior and exterior enemies
  • muralistcreate very large paintings, usually the size of an entire wall or even the entire side of a building
  • poet - write poetry

of course, go for any career you want and don’t let astrology dictate it! but some of these are really nice :)

It’s Ya Girl’s College Scholarship Masterpost

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jesussbabymomma:

Hello internet civilians! As some of you may or may not know, my name is Dana and I am a high school senior that is ALWAYS on the prowl for trying to get to college for as cheap as possible. I’ve come across 1000′s of scholarships that I simply don’t qualify for, so I thought “hey, why not share these with random people on the internet that don’t know where to start?” You asked the question and only answers you shall receive.

Please remember to credit me for this masterpost because I spent a lot of time and energy on it :)

PLEASE ALSO REMEMBER THAT A SCHOLARSHIP IS WORTHLESS IF YOU DO NOT APPLY FOR IT. 

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onlinecounsellingcollege:

“Embrace uncertainty. Some of the most beautiful chapters in our lives won’t have a title until much later.”

— Bob Goff

dreamer9817:

fandomsandfeminism:

I really think hospitals and doctors that work with pregnancy and pediatricians need to make more literature available for how to, ya know, work with kids?  Because the more conversations we have about spanking (and how it’s ineffective and harmful and does more bad than good), the more I realize that a lot of people don’t know the alternatives. Or like, anything about child development or where misbehavior stems from. 

So, as someone who went through childhood development classes in college, works with kids for a living, and knows multiple people who specialized in childhood education, here are some pointers when you are working with kids:

1. Model emotional response for kids. Children are learning how to recognize and respond to their own emotions. All the way up through high school, children’s brains are still developing, and the emotions they are learning to process become more complex. So with really young kids, the easiest way to help them with this is to model emotional self awareness and self care. 

  • “Oh wow, mommy is feeling angry because the cat made a mess. I’m going to clean this mess and then go sit in my room in the quiet for a short break so I feel better.”
  • “You know, I am feeling very sad about not going to the park because it is raining. I bet some hot chocolate and a book would make me feel better.”
  • ”Huh, I’m feeling kind of cranky and hungry, but daddy won’t be home for dinner for another hour. I bet I’ll feel better if I eat a little piece apple while we wait.” 

2. Understand what causes child frustration and work to preempt it. 

  • -Transitions (from one activity to another, getting in the car, etc) can be stressful, especially if the activity or location they are leaving is fun. Give kids a warning when this is going to happen. With young kids, give them about 5-15 minutes of warning (”10 minutes until we are going to leave the park and go home. Do your last thing.”), with older kids, just give them a time frame. (We are can play at McDonalds for 30 minutes, but then we have to go grocery shopping, ok?) 
  • Not being able to communicate what they want to is frustrating. Babies can learn simplified baby sign language months before they are verbal. Kids may not know the words for what they are trying to say. Be patient and help them find the right words. On a similar note, don’t ignore kids. If you really can’t respond to their question right away because of something else, at least tell the “Yes, I heard your question. I’ll answer you as soon as I’m done talking on the phone.”
  • Not being able to make choices or having too much choice can be overwhelming. Give kids a limited, reasonable selection of choices. “Do you want apple slices or juicy pears on the side for lunch?” is much better than “What do you want with your sandwich?” or just giving them apple slices. “Do you want to give grandpa a hug or a high five?” is better than demanding they hug grandpa right away. 

3. Understand that kids are people to. They will get hungry, tired, an annoyed just like adults do. Sometimes you have to be flexible and give them time to self care. Talk to them, explain things to them, let them be people and not just dolls.  “Because I said so” is really unhelpful for a growing kid. “We can’t buy Fruit Loops today because we are already getting Frosted Flakes. We only need one cereal at a time.” is going to do you a lot more favors. “Don’t pick up the glass snow globe. It belongs to grandma and can break easy. She would be sad if we broke it on accident.” is better than “don’t touch that.” 


And look, no parent is perfect. No baby sitter, no teacher, no care taker is going to be awesome all the time. And no kid is going to be perfect. They will cry and have tantrums, and not be able to tell you what they need, and be stubborn sometimes. Sometimes they need space, or quiet time. Sometimes they need attention and validation. 


But kids learn from every interaction they have, so adults need to make the effort to show all the love, and patience, and empathy, and thoughtfulness we want them to learn. 

This is really helpful. Not just for parents but even for anyone interacting with kids. I have a tough time communicating effectively with people my own age. And kids are a whole different ballgame.